HappYness in the 21st Century

               

                HappYness in the 21st Century.

  

      You know it's getting Harder these days to stay Happy 

         and to be in Peace. There was point in my Life where

          I decided you know what ???

                             

                                    HappYness is "The Most Important" 

        thing in Life and I am going to Collect, Store, Write 

        down every single thing I could find about HappYness.  

        There was definitely 1 MAJOR filter, whatever it was 

        it should make sense to me, it should be relatable to

         My Life and Experience.  

       

                                            As this was the only way I could

       Validate, as a Re-searcher { :P   hehehe, I like bragging  

        about myself hehehe, Silly meee } that the content was 

       really Valuable, ImpactFul and at the same time 

       Relatable.  

      

             

                                  Cuz I really believe in the fact that, if

           a process or a system is working for people around it

        will work for me as well. Okay, Time to Reveal the 

        findings :-

                                    Tan Tadaa 

        

        

       What Gives you HappYness in the Life of the 21st  

       Century. 

      1.   Staying close to your Roots.

      2.  Creativity = Happiness.  

                            Waaaaait, don't take the Gun out, yet  !!! 

        Let, me explain yo ..

                   

  

                          See, I was on trip to Delhi and I met a really

         wise man. He was a Director of Tech. company some 

              VLSI related Engineering thingy. 

   

                         We were discussing about Life, he then made 

        a statement which I have not been able forget and has 

        stuck with me ever since. Mind you the day he told me

        and until today, it's been 7 years.  

             

  

                            He was a complete stranger yet was very 

        comfortable with me as I was a guest { half his age }

        at his home. OKaY enough with the SuSpense...

  

   

                   " People are not mature, they do not calculate

       everything in Life. One of the biggest cause of Sadness 

       and Depression today is due to MIGRATION. People 

      go soo far away from their families, their place of birth,

     their childhood friends, their culture, their Source, their

     Memories and then they complain about their condition"

   

                                                             He said this, but I never 

     really understood the WORTH of these words, I did not

     have any experience or memory that could relate to this 

     statement.

     Yeaaars went by, my friends who had gone abroad started


      to share their experience and challenges of staying in a 


     foreign land,  looow and behold !!! 

     This Statement comes back to Life. It starts to add up, it

      made sense to me now. 

                                      I too was very eager to go to the US

       but, I choose not to Go for some reason or maybe this one. 

       { Also, I am Super Dhinka Naka Lazzy soo I am not

      really sure, if its Lazziness or subconscious understanding

      of this statement }

  

         It was the Right Decision, I made for myself. I am too 

      attached to the Magic of India, the culture, the people,

     the nuances, Modi, the bonding, the slang, the gossip and

     interfering nature of things to go to a Dead, Rich & Clean 

     place like US, huh... 

                     Get this straight... You grow up in a Culture & 

     that becomes a part of you. It's a deep Mind thing, You

     can't just Decide and Plan and say okay I am moving

     to a place which thousands of miles apart and Hope 

     that with time, everything will fall into Place. No, I am

     sorry it never will. 

             Yes, you can learn stuff, forget your original accent

       but the Adapting, Adjusting will never be completed.

      You honestly can't keep up with the Joneses.  // U can 

      keep a Bet with me on this One.   

                                Now, don't curse me and say okay buddy

     " Why don't you find me a decent Job here itself then ",

     look sometimes that's the best option I am not saying NO

    but sometimes people had a choice...

                 Part 2 : The Return of Creativity

          

                         How can I be happy in a situation//                       

     condition wherein we do the same thing over and over 

     again.  It can be our jobs or our assignments as a student.

     

                                

                                 It's simple, un-chain the Artist in you.

    Channel the energy inside and Create

    Express your feelings 

    In your own way. Releease it  

    Create for You, for Your Joy

    No reason, No Aim, Everything is Right

                                   Research from the Texas University of 

    Psychology revealed that Happiness happens when you

     engage in a creative pursuit. Take a pencil draw, make a 

     clay statue, create your own music, your very own song, 

     ohhh heck take some grass of the ground stick on a piece 

     of paper & make a funny face, anything is fine, its just 

     you spending some Me time. It really helps, u shd give 

      it a try...

     

       When you see it done = Satisfaction Peace HappYness

                                         Bonus happiness comes when you

        create something and you can share it with people. The

        feeling of being a Creator is just Pure Joy. This is so

        Peaceful. 

        Thank you, O Lovely soul, for being a Part of my Joy.